Tag: AI Chatbots

As parents, we’re navigating uncharted territory. Our kids are growing up with AI chatbots as readily available as Google once was for us. These tools aren’t encyclopedias, and they shouldn’t be treated as reliable sources of truth.

I’m not anti-technology. Far from it. But after watching my own friends and family interact with AI chatbots for homework help and “quick answers,” I’ve learned we need to have some real conversations about what these tools actually are, and what they aren’t.

AI Gets Things Wrong Regularly

Here’s what most parents don’t realize: ChatGPT and similar AI tools can confidently deliver incorrect information.

They “hallucinate,” a technical term meaning they literally make things up while sounding completely authoritative.

Real examples I’ve encountered:

• Wrong historical dates presented as facts
• Invented book titles and authors for article references
• Incorrect math explanations that seemed logical but used flawed reasoning
• Outdated medical information some parents found when researching a health topic

The AI delivered all of this with complete confidence. No hesitation. No “I’m not sure about this.”

What Every Parent Needs to Understand

1. Chatbots Don’t “Know” Anything – Unlike a teacher or a textbook, AI doesn’t actually understand concepts. It predicts what words should come next based on patterns. Think of it like an incredibly sophisticated autocomplete, not a knowledgeable expert.
2. They Reflect Biases in Their Training Data – AI learns from internet content, which means it can perpetuate stereotypes, cultural biases, and misinformation that exists online. Your 10-year-old asking about careers might get subtly biased suggestions based on gender or ethnicity.
3. There’s No Accountability – When a textbook is wrong, there’s a publisher and editorial process to hold accountable. When AI is wrong, there’s just an algorithm making statistical guesses with no one to answer for the errors. Except you… if you use it in your own work.

Safer ways to use AI

✓ Treat AI as a brainstorming buddy, not an answer key. It’s great for generating ideas or rough drafts but terrible as a sole information source.

✓ Teach the “verify with two reliable sources” rule. If an AI tells your child something, they need to confirm it with actual credible sources (academic websites, verified databases, trusted publications).

✓ Have the “confidence doesn’t equal correctness” conversation. Help kids understand that just because something sounds authoritative doesn’t make it true.

✓ Use it as a teaching moment. When you catch an AI error together, celebrate it! You’re building critical thinking skills that will serve them for life.

AI chatbots are powerful tools that aren’t going anywhere, and that’s okay.

Our job isn’t to ban them but to teach our kids to be smarter than the algorithms. In a world where AI can write essays and answer questions in seconds, the most valuable skill we can give our children is the ability to think critically, verify information, and understand the limitations of their digital tools.

The future doesn’t belong to kids who can get quick answers from AI. It belongs to kids who know how to question those answers.